I will admit I enjoy alone time, it’s a wonderful time for me to release my stress, and envision doing my thing to some woman I can never have. Jada Pinkett , Tarji P. Henson and Nia Long have all been in my mental bed…I turned them out too!!! Fellas it’s not a bad thing to have some “alone time”, it doesn’t mean you are lonely or any of the negative stereotypes. It’s a way to keep your testosterone levels down because when those levels are high men are just evil. I really believe that is why men always want to fight, and act crazy, testosterone is high.
Ladies, don’t make your man feel bad because he has “alone time”. Just because he has “alone time”, it has nothing to do you. That’s one problem women have that they need to fix, everything is not always about you. I don’t care if you are giving it to your man anyway he wants it, and as much as he wants it, he is still going to want that “alone time”. It’s just a habit that we as men enjoy from time to time, you just have to take yourself out of the equation, and embrace it. This will save your feelings from getting hurt.
This is just my aimless thoughts because I hate when men claim they don’t have “alone time” because they are afraid of what a woman might say. If they do admit they have “alone time”, it’s with an asterisk; they say stuff like “only if she wants me too” or “every blue moon, like one or twice a month”. Really…I just say fellas need to grow up.