tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75455470985718435432024-03-14T01:52:21.784-04:00On The Chaise LoungeMileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-20481319363392798692011-02-03T12:16:00.001-05:002011-02-03T12:16:26.594-05:00Thought of the DayTwenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. - <em>Mark Twain</em> Mileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-35440777623933884632011-02-02T10:31:00.004-05:002011-02-02T10:33:54.098-05:00Why Is It Wednesday's...Do looks matter?<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;">Ok Ok...this is something new I want to do on Wednesday’s.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This is going to be called WHY IS IT...I will be listing things that I see daily and I question it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Most ppl that know me think I know everything away so I am trying to learn, so hopefully so of my friends can help me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;">WHY IS IT that people are much more understanding and willing to except crap from people that are attractive?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It’s like if you are attractive you can say and do whatever you want, and people will allow you to walk over them.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If you are unattractive people will be quick to check you and get pissed if you do something they don’t like.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>For example…I got in a very minor fender bender with an extremely unattractive person, there was only slight damage to our cars, a little paint rubbed off nothing serious, but this chick was trying to make it such a big deal.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I have had a few days to think about and if anyone knows Keisha L. Thomas of Woodbridge please pass on I am sorry for the attitude I gave you during the hour we had to spend together waiting on the police to come.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I was highly pissed at her because she made me wait in the cold for the cops to come so they could tell us the same thing I had told her an hour prior, that we should exchange information and be on our marry ways, but I guess Ms. Thomas didn’t like the posted note I gave her she wanted it on a nicer piece of paper. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I really believe my sarcastic attitude came from the fact that she was unattractive.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>At the moment of the accident the first thing I said was “damn she is not hot”.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I know that was very judgmental but when she got out the car all I saw was a bad natural hair style, two big fake flowers on the side of her hand that was on hair clips she had in the natural, and a dirty blue jacket.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I became more in raged with her because she was not trying to listen to me, I was trying to explain to her what was going to happen and she was not listening. I don’t know how many times I said under my breathe “THIS UGLY MUTHA”. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>After a few days of thinking about my attitude I really feel bad because if I hadn’t been judging her appearance I would have understood that it was her first accident.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She was scared, she didn’t know what to do and me telling her what to do seem like I was trying to punk her and she just wanted the backing of cops to make sure I wasn’t trying to con her.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I would have realized it wasn’t her car so she was also afraid she would get in trouble there as well. So again I am sorry… </div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>People I am here to tell you that physical appearance is not everything; I am going to take my own advice here and not judge people because of the way they look.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I am sure Ms. Thomas is a nice lady I just got an attitude with her because I felt she was lesser of a person because she was unattractive.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We as a people need to look deeper into a person and treat everyone the same no matter their appearance.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>So from now on I am going to give it to the Halle Berry types the same way I give it to the Keisha Thomas’s types. There will be no double standards…well maybe if it really is Halle Berry then she can have whatever she wants!! <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div>Mileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-53940382648331181572011-02-02T10:31:00.003-05:002011-02-02T10:31:58.498-05:00Thought of the Day"Do the best you can in every task, no matter how unimportant it may seem at the time. No one learns more about a problem than the person at the bottom". - Sandra Day O'ConnorMileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-28700357820497810012011-01-31T10:15:00.002-05:002011-01-31T10:15:46.700-05:00Thought of the Day"The gem cannot be polished without friction, nor man perfected without trials." - <em>Chinese Proverb </em>Mileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-71806263997628295792011-01-28T10:40:00.000-05:002011-01-28T10:40:02.222-05:00Thought of the Day!!!<div class="long">"If you think there is good in everybody, you haven't met everybody. "</div><div class="long"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;">I don’t know about the M word.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I really don’t think marriage is in myfuture as of right now.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Let me rephrase that, until I really understand the purpose of marriage I don’t think I will be doing it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Unlike most people these days I take marriage serious and want to make sure when I do walk down the aisle it going to be forever.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I am not going to be giving up all the beautiful women in this world for some lame ass chick I think I love, so I can be miserable and unhappy after I realize she is some bullshit.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>FUCK THAT SHIT!!! </div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I will say this with full confidence and I really believe this…NO MAN WANTS TO GET MARRIED.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It has nothing to do with playing the field and being afraid of commitment, it has everything to do with there is no benefit in it for us.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> It's a bad business decision from the beginning, and when it doesn't work men more times than women are paying out the ass for alimony. </span>Men are not wired the same as women, we don't have the same worries about companionship that women may have. Men are comfortable with being alone for the rest of their lives, and actually I don’t think being lonely even crosses a man’s mind.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I think all men, no matter how ugly or different knows they will find someone to spend time with them, so we don’t have that fear.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Men have figured out that there is nothing wrong with having kids out of wedlock.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Men don’t really care what people think of them, if men really cared then the amount of deadbeat dads would be way less in this world.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Men don’t dream of walking down the aisle in a tux that’s too tight with family around.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If people think there is no truth to what I am saying just ask somebody that is married.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I can promise you that their answer will be something along the lines of “make sure you ready” or “are you sure”…those are not good selling points to me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"> So why do people get married if one side of the equation doesn't really want too?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Easy…Women are so damn persuasive.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>My dad would always tell me “Son, a woman will make you weak”, he was RIGHT!! I need men to think about all the stupid stuff they have done for a woman. Think about the silly outfits you might have bought, a car, or a hair style you received just because you knew a woman would love it. Since the beginning of time women have been getting men to do whatever they want them to do.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When Eve got Adam to eat that apple it’s been all downhill for men ever since. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I am not totally against marriage I just think today this younger generation is too quick to walk down the aisle then too quick to try to jump out of the marriage when the honeymoon is over.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I just don’t understand how one minute someone is so in love then the first sign of trouble they are cheating on each other, complaining about this or that, and then headed for divorce.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I have a theory on why people do this, it’s because men and women expect stuff that was never in the relationship or they take away something that was in the relationship.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>For example…Men are not very good communicators of their feelings in the first place but for some reason women allow their men to not fully communicate with them when they are dating but think that because they are married that means he should all of a sudden be able to communicate with the way the woman wants him too.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>On the other hand women and men sometimes get a little to relax with their appearance, stop doing the things they did to get that man or woman. They get the silly thinking of "I got them and they not going anywhere", but little do they know that's why peoples eyes start wondering. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This is just my opinion, like I said in the beginning I just want to make sure that when I say “I Do” it’s forever.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I think it’s a beautiful thing to see two people that’s been together for 30 and 40 years, that’s what I am looking to have on day.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I am not going to rush into anything just because a woman is ready to be a bride and tired of being a girlfriend.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I really don’t see a problem with two people being committed to each other without putting a ring on it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If that man and that woman are communicating then there is no reason why it can’t work.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We shouldn't allow all the wedding shows, society and anyone else force you to be married because you have a long time boy/girlfriend.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> Marriage should be something that is done one time, you should know that when you say "I Do" that is the right person forever. That person was brought you by God and you commited to God that you will love and honor that person till death do you part. Not until you get bored, tired of something they do or want a new mate it just doesn't work like that. So until I find that I will continue to sit back and watch all these fool wasted their time with marriages they know are not going to work but hey "IT SOUNDS GOOD AT THE TIME" </span>Just my thoughts….Peace.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div>Mileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-12376366754980899932011-01-26T12:22:00.000-05:002011-01-26T12:22:29.915-05:00Thought of the Day...Jan. 26 2011<a name='more'></a>I heard this today so I thought it would be a nice thought of the day<br />
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"What you are is Gods gift to YOU, What you make of yourself is your gift to HIM"Mileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-80196970516612016882011-01-26T12:17:00.000-05:002011-01-26T12:17:25.476-05:00AS I LOOK IN THE MIRROR!!!<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"> Good Morning…I have really been slacking on my blogs but I am back.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It’s a New Year, so what better way to start 2011 off by talking about whom else…ME!!!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I would like to give a little disclaimer.</div><a name='more'></a><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;">I start this blog about me:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>THIS IS GOING TO BE VERY SELF CENTERED, VAIN, ARROGANT AND COCKY, SO IF YOU CAN’T STOMACH ME STROKING MY OWN EGO PLEASE STOP READING NOW!!!!.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I woke up this wonderful Wednesday morning with a smile on my face,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>forget that there was a small dusting of snow on the ground, I had joy and happyness(I know there is supposed to be an I instead of the y) in my heart. Why…because for some reason I just feel extra blessed today.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There are so many people waking up this morning with life-threatening illness, addictions, homeless, unemployed, and shit some people just didn’t get up this morning.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As I got dressed this morning I had to take a second look at myself, and I was very impressed.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It impressed me so much that I had to walk away from the mirror and come back with my glasses on just to see if I was mistaken by the image looking back at me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Looking at me on the outside was a gentleman that stands 6’2, 219lbs(got to cut back on the ice cold Blue Moons), slightly slanted eyes with a beautiful brown shade, full lips, intimidating broad shoulders but they allow for the best hug.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When combine all that with my curly hair, unbelievably soft hands, a great personality and my light bright complexion…it all equal AMAZING!!!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If you are still reading this I will explain my feeling for stroking my own ego today.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Honestly….WHY THE FUCK NOT!!! I get tired of people always making other people feel bad for loving themselves.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They make people feel bad because they don’t have the self love and confidence and like the famous sayings goes “misery loves company”. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Kat Williams said it best when he said “If you don’t think you the shit than nobody else will think you are the shit”.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You have to love yourself, every part of yourself, from your nappy ass head down to your crusty feet, the pimples on your face to the chip in your tooth, you have to love YOU!!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When I stroke my ego I am just pumping myself up for the day.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I think I am the shit all the time for those that know me, but why shouldn’t I think that.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I have been through so much in my life, there have been so many moments where I could have gone off the deep end but the Lord kept me on the right path.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>For example…I am not ashamed anymore to admit I was molested as a child, I stayed at home alone at age 6, I stole things, I broke hearts, and countless other things that could have lead to a disaster of a person.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>At the end of the day I am blessed by the Lord to forgive my molester and taking all the thoughts of taken his life away from me, for allowing me to be able to survive on my own because I learned at 6 how to do that,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>become a stellar athlete, get a college degree, and be an overall wonderful person.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>So yes I am THE SHIT and I know it. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If you don’t think so, there is something wrong with you, and I really don’t care.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I just came back from the bathroom, looked at myself in the mirror on the way and I have to give thanks to Ken and Sylvia Miles for producing an attractive child.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I know they say beautiful fades but at this moment I think I am getting more handsome by the days.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When and if my looks start to go, I have a great personality to fall back on so I am straight.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Thank you for reading and I think this is a wonderful way to start off 2011 and I will have more shocking blogs to come. Stay tuned…..also I want to give something for my readers to think about so I will have a thought of the day coming as well.</div>Mileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-15828082081341258152010-11-15T14:20:00.000-05:002010-11-15T14:20:02.797-05:00Quick Relationship Rant<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"> If I hear another woman say this line…”I don’t want to ruin our friendship.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ladies why don’t you <br />
<a name='more'></a>just be honest with men say “I don’t like you like that; I just want you to be my friend.” <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>That line is getting so old.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>What happen to the thinking that friends make the best lovers? Why would the relationship ever be bad if that person is your real friend, someone that knows everything about you?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt 0.5in;">Someone that knows everything about you..BINGO!!!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>That’s the problem, women don’t want the man that knows everything about them because how is she going to play her games and hide her feelings.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Women want the guy that knows what she allows him to know about herself.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I really don’t know the thinking behind it but I really believe that is why women don’t want the guy that has seen them at their worst and is still in love with them.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> Friends are the best lovers because that man has seen you hurting, crying and broke down. They will love you to your core, they will do whatever to not be the men you complained to them about. So f</span>ellas, if you are feeling a woman and she hits you with that line don’t feel bad.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Take it as a compliment, because what she is basically telling you is that you are too good for her and she doesn’t deserve you.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> She is saying "I value superficial bullshit and I am not ready for anything meaning full eventhough I say I do.". </span>Think about it guys, do you really want to be with a woman that things so poorly of herself?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She is already thinking of the end of the relationship instead of the joy the two of you could share. She knows deep down she is full of shit and in a little while you will figure it out too. Women like this is going to be the ones that are bitter and alone. Then in about ten years, 3 babies, two failed marriages, she will come to you and say “I should have chose you.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> Or she will be at your wedding sitting in the back upset because another woman took full advantage of everything you had to offer, and singing this wonderful song by Etta James..<a href="http://www.youtube.com/v/0_i-AI61PEo?fs=1&amp;hl=en_US">http://www.youtube.com/v/0_i-AI61PEo?fs=1&amp;hl=en_US</a></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt 0.5in;"> </div>Mileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-81406630490339915292010-11-15T13:35:00.003-05:002010-11-15T13:36:48.958-05:00Social Networks<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> <br />
<a name='more'></a> that you can reconnect with people from your past and see how life has been treating them.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It’s also a wonderful place to promote your business, pass the day at work chatting with friend or just laughing at people’s pictures.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The problem I have with social networks is some people do too much.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They put so much of their personal business on their, we don’t care if you have a new man and how wonderful he is to you.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When that lame relationship goes south in a few months you will not put that on your status.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We don’t care if you are having lunch with your bestie at Cosi and you order the chicken caesar salad with blue cheese crumbs. Why are you changing your profile picture every day we know what you look like? Then when someone gets mad at another person, the first thing they do is run to the computer and cut them from the friends list.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Really!!! What is going on with us? </span>*Social Networks…They are the coolest and most popular thing right now.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I really think it’s a cool idea</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I have been cut from a few “friends” buddy list, it happened most recently; I just want to say to her and everyone reading this IDON’T GIVE A FUCK!!!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I will explain what happen recently, chick at work was doing something she had no business doing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was a fucked up plan in the beginning because it was totally obvious what she was doing, and the person that was an accomplice to the crime had already sold her out so it was a matter of time before the shit hit the fan.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Long story short she gets in slight trouble, but the first thing she does is change her status to something about friends stabbing you in the back, and smiling in your face.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Then she goes to cutting me and other co-workers from her buddy list.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It just goes to shows how much social networks are controlling our lives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She was so pissed that she got in trouble she raced back to her computer just to let the world she felt that someone had stabbed her in the back.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She didn’t even think that damn I had a fucked up plan, with a terrible accomplice, but I am going to be mad that world instead of myself.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;">People, there is nothing wrong with social networks, just don’t let it control your life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Have fun with it, don’t take it so serious.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Keep your personal business to yourself sometimes.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Oh and don’t be a stalker on social networks as well.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I don’t know how many times I have been asked questions because someone saw me in a picture with someone, or I change my dating status.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If you are person that has gotten upset over a picture, or a status you are an ASSHOLE!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In the grown up world people discuss things and asked questions when they don’t understand. You know what they say about assuming?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div>Mileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-22356459654686251882010-10-06T10:43:00.000-04:002010-10-06T10:43:09.286-04:00Bitter<div style="text-align: center;"><a name='more'></a> <br />
You a little Bitter, Now I'm little Bitter<br />
I left your ass for shorty cause she's a little thicka</div><div style="text-align: center;"> And really knows out to get nut out my snicka</div><div style="text-align: center;"> Your sex was alright, head was pretty tight </div><div style="text-align: center;"> But my baby I call her JJ cause she is </div><div style="text-align: center;"> DY-NO-MITE!!!</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: center;"> Do you remember what you put me through</div><div style="text-align: center;"> Handling your baby's father and you listening to your lame ass crew</div><div style="text-align: center;"> The grass is greener and I'm a little meaner</div><div style="text-align: center;"> So I hope you feeling lonely, As you reminiscing on me</div><div style="text-align: center;">While you digging in your kitty in Salt Lake City</div><div style="text-align: center;"> Look how it all turn out NOW!!! <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div>Mileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-65536885529082336502010-10-06T10:41:00.003-04:002010-10-06T10:42:34.282-04:00Alone Time.... Hey Fellas why are we so ashamed to admit that we enjoy “Alone Time” aka Jerking Off!!!<br />
<a name='more'></a> I will admit I enjoy alone time, it’s a wonderful time for me to release my stress, and envision doing my thing to some woman I can never have.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Jada Pinkett , Tarji P. Henson and Nia Long have all been in my mental bed…I turned them out too!!!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Fellas it’s not a bad thing to have some “alone time”, it doesn’t mean you are lonely or any of the negative stereotypes.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It’s a way to keep your testosterone levels down because when those levels are high men are just evil.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I really believe that is why men always want to fight, and act crazy, testosterone is high.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"> Ladies, don’t make your man feel bad because he has “alone time”.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Just because he has “alone time”, it has nothing to do you. That’s one problem women have that they need to fix, everything is not always about you.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I don’t care if you are giving it to your man anyway he wants it, and as much as he wants it, he is still going to want that “alone time”.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It’s just a habit that we as men enjoy from time to time, you just have to take yourself out of the equation, and embrace it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This will save your feelings from getting hurt.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"> This is just my aimless thoughts because I hate when men claim they don’t have “alone time” because they are afraid of what a woman might say.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If they do admit they have “alone time”, it’s with an asterisk; they say stuff like “only if she wants me too” or “every blue moon, like one or twice a month”.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Really…I just say fellas need to grow up.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div>Mileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-11454683539066128852010-10-06T10:41:00.000-04:002010-10-06T10:41:45.330-04:00Random Thoughts.....Random Shit I Think About.....<br />
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** I think old people shouldn't drive cars. If you are 75 you need to be forced to turn your license over to the DMV on your birthday. At some point you need to just sit your old ass down somewhere and allow people to drive you around. Old people going under the speed limit on the highway is dangerous, if you can't keep up with traffic get from behind the wheel.<br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"> **All cities need to get rid of the walk/don't walk signs because nobody follows the rules. If you see a BIG ASS RED hand that means don't walk your ass in the street. Also, if the sign has a countdown and there is 5 secs on the clock, and you know you are not going to walk fast. Sit your ass on the corner and wait. I don't want people giving me attitude because I almost hit them because they are in the wrong. </div><br />
<div style="text-align: center;"> **Why do people say they want an honest answer, but when you give them that answer they get mad. Really!!! I really think people only want honesty when it works in their favor. If the answer is not what they want, I really think they will accept a lie, or a half truth. </div><br />
<div style="text-align: center;"> ** Don't say things just to be nice. If you say "hey let me know if I can do something for you" then I call you to do something and you don't want to do....KILL YOURSELF!!! People are always just saying things because it seems like the right thing to do and say. If you don't mean it, don't say shit. </div><br />
<div style="text-align: center;"> ** Can Reggie Bush get a girl that has not been with another celebrity? I mean dude is a multi-illionaire, attractive and plays football but he is always with someone elses Ex. Somebody hot is single, Keri Hilson, "Rudy" from The Cosby Show, or somebody. He is a Lameass dude.</div>Mileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-83970960184290135662010-09-30T11:54:00.000-04:002010-09-30T11:54:25.137-04:00Happy Birthday Mom!!! <br />
<a name='more'></a>Hey just wanted to wish my mother, Sylvia Joann Miles, a HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!. I am not going to say her age but man you are getting old lady. I told you I am putting you in a home and will visit on wednesdays and sunday for rest home BINGO. HAHAHA!! <br />
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Mom I just want to let you know that you are the most important thing to me. I am admitting it, I am a "momma's boy". We have been through some trying times together, for the most part it has always been you and I against the world. I can say because of you I have never wanted for anything, or went without anything I ever wanted. I remember nights in Cincinnati you would go without eating so that I could eat. The way you would make soup out of just about anything in the fridge, and to this day I hate salmon cakes because we ate them a few times a weeks....YUCK!! Mom you were the ying to my dad's yang. I think I got his fire and temper but you are the calming side of me that keeps me from jumping off the deep end sometimes. You are so amazing, the way you keep your head high and find a way to overcome it really inspires me. When my family turn their back on you after dads passing, you never said a ill word about them, you still was respectful and nice. I don't know how you could do it, that just shows the love you have for people, no matter the circumstance you are going to treat people well. I am just proud to have you as my mother...I am bias but you are the best mother in the world. I am happy you are mine. Mileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-82199779097555695802010-09-29T15:49:00.000-04:002010-09-29T15:49:22.170-04:00Random ThoughtsI am a day behind but i was busy yesterday but here we go....<br />
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* Everyone is talking about this Eddie Long thing, so here is what I think.....HE DID IT!!! Just like O.J killed Nicole, and just like Chris Brown beat Rhianna he is gulity. I think this for 2 reason...1) no man is going to admit they were raped or molested. I don't care how much money is at stake, they will come up with another way to get money. So why would they lie on Eddie? They wouldn't he did the shit. 2) Did you hear the lame speech he gave? If I know I didn't do something, especially touching little boys, I would have lead with HELL NAW I DIDN'T DO THAT SHIT!!!. What was up with his hair piece, and I thought collarless suits and shirts were out of style.\<br />
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*Can everyone stop hating on Michael Vick now? It's official he is BACK and better than before. Hopefully he will continue to be a better person off the field. This country is about second chances and right now he is taking full advantage of his second chance. <br />
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*When do grown me stop fighting or trying to show how Tough they are..I really thought "thugs" were gone, last sunday saw a dude get caught with a mean elbow over a basketball game, then the dude that got elbowed ran to his bag to get his keys and started to run to his car...REALLY!! Both these dude are over 30 with kids and wives but still have the need to show people how tough they are. My teammate had a good solution for these "tough" ass dude...sign up for MMA. Thats where the real tough guys are located, they got people begging to fight.<br />
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*Why are all the singing groups that were hot in the 90's have a show on black networks. You got SWV, KCi then Dru Hill and now KCi andJoJo got a show. Nobody want to see these has beens fight to get back to glory. Dru Hill performed at K2 in Woodbridge they are not going anywhere fast.<br />
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Ok thats all I got today..Mileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-68850140148204624712010-09-27T11:33:00.001-04:002010-09-27T13:16:17.184-04:00Marriage I really feel like I am getting old because it seems like everyone around me is getting married lately.<br />
<a name='more'></a>Just found out a friend of mine just got married and got me to thinking really fast about marriage. I am on the fence about this issue, on one end I feel marriage is a wonderful thing, but on the only end I think it is such an overrated concept. I just ask a lot of questions, like why do you get married, when do you know it's the right time to get married, and most importantly is this person the right person to marry.<br />
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<strong><em><u>Let's take the first question why do you get married</u>?</em></strong> Honestly, I really don't know the reason why. I have asked a few people that our married, some answers were good but most of them didn't make a lot of sense to me. One person I asked said "It was Time"...WHAT? It was time? I asked "what does that mean" and he told me nothing that I dare to repeat because it will make me look bad for having a person in my circle that says such stupid things. I will say he said kids and it being cheaper was part of his decision... again WHAT!!! So I asked a married female why and her answer was "because he is not going to continue getting all of me for nothing, and I know I will not be alone"...Maybe I shouldn't have wrote her response either. I really couldn't believe people had these thoughts when it came to people they "love". I did get one answer I liked and because of this answer I know his marriage will last. My good friend said he got married because his wife was everything he was chasing out there in the streets, and wanted to make it known to God and everyone he had found what he was looking for. This was such a good answer to me because that is all we are really doing by dating is looking for someone that fills desires in our mind, so when you find a person that fills them get out the game. I just think that marriage is serious, it shouldn't be played with, but so many play with marriage. Thats why you see so many people getting married again and again because they didn't know what they wanted or doing when it comes to marriage. If you are going to do it you need to know what you are getting into because for me it's going to be forever. I am one and done when it comes to walking down the aisle; I will have a good reason for doing it as well, not just because I have been dating a woman for awhile and she wants me to buy the cow and stop getting milk for free.<br />
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<strong><em><u>When is the right time to get married</u>?</em></strong> I have no answer for this one; I know people that has gotten married after years of dating and some that were married after a few months so there is no real time table. I just think that people that get married need to know if they want a marriage or just a wedding. They need to understand that once all the excitement of the wedding, honeymoon, the dress, and all the free booze I can drink is over there is work to be done. They have to be with this person 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. In whatever amount of time you invest in a person before marriage you need to know for sure that you can deal with everything they bring to the marriage. Accept their flaws as well as their good qualities, know that you are willing to struggling and die for this person. <br />
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<strong><em>How do you know if this person is the right person?</em></strong> I think the right person to marry is the person that you are attracted to in everyway, this person challenges you to be the best person you can be and pushes you to be that person. The right person will support the other in everything they try to accomplish, be their backbones when they need one, and be that shoulder then might need to lean on. I really believe that you need to go through somethings with a person before even thinking about marrying them. It's so easy to be in love and all kiss face when things are going well. I need to know the person I am going to spend my life with is not going to jump of the ship when the waters get rough. A lot of people say I know my man or woman because we have know each other for years, but that doesn't mean you know them in a relationship setting. Then they get married and after awhile they don't want to be married to their spouse because they think they have changed all of a sudden. No boo boo the fool that person has always been that way but their actions was ignored because you was so "in love". So my advice is spend that quality time and know that person inside and out but if you shotgun it, you just need to just be open to what may come your way and embrace the information you find out on the fly.<br />
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Maybe one day I will get married, I really don't know, I just get a kick out of all the people that get married for reason like "shit I am 30" or "I don't want to be alone". To you people I say good luck with that because through my eyes divorce court is right around the corner. Damn that sounded so much like judgement, probably was but I just get tired of people making a mockery of marriage. I really think there is nothing more beautiful then a couple that has been married for 25, or 30 years and still loving each other. My high school coaches parents are about to celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary in a few weeks, but on the other hand I know people that are divorcing after three years, why is that because my coaches parents knew the meaning of marriage. People my age are just getting married for the hell of it, and the real sad part is the people getting married probably know its going to be a flop but just go ahead on with it. So to all the marriage couples make it last, work at it, and hold on to what made you fall in love. To all the people wanting to get married figure out the real reason you want to get married.<br />
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____Miles Mileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-38823669648348929132010-09-24T12:49:00.000-04:002010-09-24T12:49:06.062-04:00my plea(Dec. 2009)<a name='more'></a><br />
Baby you are adored<br />
Your mind, body and soul I have explored<br />
The way you command a room just leaves me floored<br />
Never a moment where I feel bored or ignored.<br />
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Look at you standing all of 5'8, cute in the face and thick in the waist<br />
Short Nia Long cut from Friday...remember that from back in the day<br />
Nice little butt, OK OK I'm sorry for that, you know I am a nut<br />
Baby your smile makes my knees weak, when you speak all the words I keep<br />
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When I am heading left you pull me back right<br />
You are my rock, you stood beside me when others mocked<br />
I have become a man because of your love, I don't know if you were smart<br />
Give me your hand cause I have given you my heart<br />
This ring is the key and this poem is my plea....baby will you marry mMileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-90142012167496522322010-09-24T12:48:00.001-04:002010-09-24T12:48:23.897-04:00A Single Man Thought(Dec. 2009)<a name='more'></a>I just wanted to hit it once<br />
That's all I desired<br />
What are you talking about you felt a fire<br />
You better jump yo ass in the shower<br />
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I am a rolling stone, I enjoy being alone <br />
No commitment or responsibility<br />
Just have fun, as the moon shines on us I lay between your slice<br />
So forget what you think you feel and what you think you heard<br />
Its totally absurd, your ruining a good thing that's my word<br />
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I do blame myself for your obsession and depression<br />
If I wasn't so determined to see you naked<br />
My feelings I wouldn't have faked <br />
I just wanted to give you back spasms from multiple orgasms<br />
And a smile on your face as I slip out your place<br />
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Baby believe me this doesn't make you a whore<br />
I just didn't want anything more<br />
So i hope you understand <br />
Its not your fault I am just a happy single ManMileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-17626615313218077132010-09-24T12:47:00.000-04:002010-09-24T12:47:03.697-04:00Goodbye Love...(Nov. 2009)Goodbye Love.....<br />
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I have loved you from the first moment i saw you<br />
Ninth grade when we met<br />
Trips across the country that I will never forget..<br />
Countless other things we talked about that we never got to do.<br />
The time we shared so innocent and true.<br />
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Talks of our future together has faded into an unfulfilled goal<br />
Now I sit here alone, with a heart that now has a hole<br />
I loved you completely mind, body and soul...But<br />
I gave you less than 100 percent,<br />
So I guess this is what i get.<br />
A sinking feeling in my stomach and eyes filled with tears<br />
I can only blame myself and my foolish fears.<br />
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I wasted so much time trying to just be, and had you waiting on me<br />
Thought you were going to be there forever, I believe this<br />
But now I finally see<br />
When loves in your hands you got to grow up, be a man, and walk across the sands<br />
Grab it with all your might<br />
As our love goes out of sight, and in your rear view<br />
Know that I LOVE YOU....GOODBYE!!!!Mileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-53112527495749025542010-09-21T10:58:00.001-04:002010-09-21T10:58:33.837-04:00Random Tuesday Thoughts 3It's that time....Just shit I think about...<br />
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* I would like to say goodbye summer...tomorrow is the first day of fall. It was a wonderful summer but i am going to missed the sundresses, open toe sandles, and tank tops. Until next year I will see you then, I can't wait.<br />
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* Who else is excited for Glee tonight. I really can't believe I am hooked on this show but it's kind of addictive. <br />
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* At what age can people not drive. If you are old and can't see get your ass off the road. The speed limit is 55 to 65 on the highway if these speeds are too much for you to handle you need to sit down somewhere. Also why do old people drive big cars? <br />
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* Am I the only one that wonders why people that have bad breathe and body odor don't smell themselves. I mean if I can smell you why can't you smell yourself, you are closer to the funk than me. <br />
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* I have a question for Lesbian's ...Why do sexy ass women date physical, hard faced, ugly women? I thought the point of being a lesbian was to be with a woman. I guess it means be with a dude minus the penis. <br />
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* Why do black dudes that have white girlfriends look so uncomfortable when they see a group of black people walking towards them. I don't get it, be proud of your lady there is no need to let her hand go or look me in my face like "she is just my friend brotha"...Grow up!!<br />
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Just the shit I think aboutMileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-26178173212479833582010-09-21T10:15:00.000-04:002010-09-21T10:15:41.969-04:00Dear God.... Dear God,<br />
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I don't really know where to begin so I will just do what I normally do and just begin speaking randomly. First, I want to say thank you for allow me to see another day. I know so many people didn't even wake up this morning, or if they did wake up they were in pain or sick, so I am excited you allowed me to see today feeling like a million bucks. Secondly, I believe I am going through a little life crisis right now. You have blessed me with so much, good friends and family, a job which makes it possible to live, shelter, transportation and food to eat. In church on sunday they talked about being in ruts, and how to get out of those ruts to glorify you. It's really had me thinking about my life and I can honestly say I am in a rut myself. I have identified my rut which is the first step now I need you more than ever to pull me completely out and dust me off. I have really tried to do a lot of things on my own and as you can see its gotten me to a point but I know that only with you in my life that I can get to where you want me to be. Your plan is so much better than mine so I am going to listen and let you guide me. My Granny always tells me to step out on faith whenever I ask her for advice on things, and this is what I am going to do. I am going to let you lead and I will take my place in the passenger seat I just request that you allow me turn to the Eagles football game on the radio. Finally, I just want to say thank you in advance for the blessings that you are going to lay at my feet. I get excited when I think about them because I know they are going to be big but I just need to get out of your way and allow you to do work. Well God until later on just wanted to spend a little time with you. <br />
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______Miles Mileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-44106327968254101132010-09-17T10:31:00.000-04:002010-09-17T10:31:25.650-04:00Jealous...Really Ok so the last couple of days I have been just sitting back, recharging my battery and gathering my thoughts. We have a serious problem in this world with people not really understanding who they are and what they have going for them.<br />
<a name='more'></a> I have a friend that I am convinced doesn't live here on Earth, I really believe his head is stuck in the clouds and the bad part is other people co-sign his bullshit. The dude really comes up with the worst lies that he tries to convince you is the truth. When his bullshit is in question he always says "aww they just jealous of me"...Really? I have come to understand the meaning of jealousy is the eagerness to have what someone else does or wants to be like someone else. I really like this dude but I wouldn't trade places in life with him for nothing in the world. Well maybe if God himself came to me in a dream and said "my son Steve I will promise you a place in heaven, with all your favorite people, and I will give you front row tickets to the welcoming concert starring Tupac, Biggie, Marvin Gaye, with guest host Richard Pryor" then i would consider the trade. <br />
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Its just blows my mind to hear people that has nothing, no job, car, place to stay, basically just a wasted of space say someone is jealous of them. How do they have the balls to say that out of their mouth and MEAN IT!. The comic James Hannah said it best when he said you have to be hater worthy to have people hate on you. I think the only thing I am jealous of is how in the hell do they survive with nothing, how do they get people to buy them clothes, love them, provide them food and shelter without asking anything of them in return. Who knew the selling of dreams was an accepted form of payment. I think Walmart is going to post a new signs that says "we accept Visa, Mastercard, EBT, and our new feature YOUR LAME ASS DREAMS!!!". <br />
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After thinking about this subject, it's really not my friends fault or people like him, it's people that know better fault. These people act like this because they know deep down they are not shit but they have to put up a good cloud of smoke so you can't see their bullshit. I know when they are at someone else's house they look in the mirror and say "man I am a loser...but shit they don't know that". It's our fault because we don't try to help them become better people, we allow them to think what they are doing is right. We enable this people to be bums in life then we praised them when they do something they are supposed to do. I am all for encourgement, but with that you have to still have to be honest with people when they are not being honest with themselves. We allow them to get a big head so they feel comfortable enough to think someone is jealous of them. I say to them..You no job having, living at home, telling lies about what you gon do ass, nobody wants your life. Your a LOSER...accept it and embrace it. My pledge is from this day forth to put people in their place when they step out of line. So this is my warning shot, don't jump your ass out there, I am cutting your legs from under you quick, fast and in a hurry. <br />
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Mileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-84298319681487954082010-09-14T10:17:00.001-04:002010-09-14T10:17:37.642-04:00Random Tuesday ThoughtsWell it's Tuesday again so let's get going.....<br />
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** It's the start of football season which is so exciting. So many good games to watch week in and week out. My Eagles are going to be middle of the road but I got a good feeling Vick is going to lead us. Fuck the Skins, hate them guys but football season just gets you excited for the winter.<br />
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** Just watched the Montana Fishbourne aka Chippy D porn last night. It was WACK!!!..First Brian Pumper needs to be kicked in his ass for trying to rap, Second Montana has so many acne stains on her ass, she must have had a serious pimple problem on her butt. The stains really took away from me watching. You can see for yourself on spankwire.com <br />
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** I love Steve Harvey but when you listen to his radio show, they spend about an hour and a half stroking his ego. Talking about his book, being on Oprah, and everything else. I know it is his show, he can do what he wants but its just sad to hear the other co-host being so excited about his accomplishments. I think Shirley Strawberry gets moist over him. <br />
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** Why do people with bad breathe have so much to tell you. They have to know their mouth smells like shit, so why are you going to refuse gum and continue to talk so damn close. <br />
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Thats all I got today at the moment...they are trying to actually make me do work today.Mileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-62929213120725006292010-09-14T09:06:00.001-04:002010-09-14T09:06:49.595-04:00Women I HATE!!! I am going to make this one a kind of short today because I don't think I should spend too much time on this subject. Over the pass couple of days I have been doing a lot of people watching, and I have notice that there are a lot of women I HATE.<br />
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1. <strong><em><u>The Independent yet Dependent Woman</u></em></strong>: Don't everyone know some woman that is always bragging about how they don't need a man. Saying the famous line "I can do it on their own, I don't need a man...blah blah blah". Then you see this same woman looking for and only wanting a man that will take care of her, buy her drinks in the club, pay her bills, and give her money...is that Independent? These women are a pain in my ass, they are nothing more then selfish, good for nothing tricksters. Apparently they don't know the meaning of independent. <br />
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2. <strong><em><u>The Bitter Ass Woman</u></em></strong>: If your a woman that had a bad break up and is holding that relationship against the rest of the male species I am talking about you. Always complaining about there is no good men in the world, then treating all men like shit, what is wrong with you ladies. Ladies you can't be bitter because you chose the wrong man, change the men you are dating, stop being fooled by cars, flashy watches and sweet talk. Bitter women need to get over that shit, stop allowing a bad relationship to ruin anything you could build in the future. If you don't you will be a lonely for the rest of your life. <br />
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3. <strong><em><u>The My Shit Don't Stink Woman</u></em></strong>: This should have been number one on my list. Fellas, haven't you talked to a woman that just thinks the world of herself and is willing to let you know she is the SHIT!!. A woman that is quick to let you know she has a big ego, that her pussy is golden and any man should be happy to be with her. Here is my question to these women, why are you single? My answer to them, you are not as great as you think you are, and the main problem is your attitude sucks. Nobody wants to hear about how great you are, if you have to tell men about your greatness then more then likely you aren't shit. Women that act this way are trying to hide their insecurities, it's a defensive so men can't know the real person.<br />
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If you find yourself in any of these three examples you need to look in the mirror and do like Michael Jackson and make that change. It's not attractive at all, but hey I am sure you will still find some sucker that will deal with you so what do I really know. Just had to get that off my chest.<br />
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____ MilesMileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05921300418755268804noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7545547098571843543.post-12113144280349505332010-09-10T09:40:00.000-04:002010-09-10T09:40:23.123-04:00The Title Last night I was playing Madden because the football game had lost its excitement, but I had my ipod playing and Ciara's song The Title started playing.<br />
<a name='more'></a> First I want to say that is a hit if nobody has ever heard it, so go to youtube to hear, secondly its such a true statement about women. Women are all about titles, they need to be able to say thats my man, my fiance', my husband and of course my baby's daddy. I believe it goes to a woman's need to feel safe and sure. They need to feel a level of comfort to allow themselves to fully open up and let their emotions out. When women know where they stand they will give men the world, and that is why they push for titles so their natural instinct of giving can be released. Plus women don't want to look silly to their friends, they can't handle being the girl that is just fucking a dude when all their girls can say he is my man, and they love the feeling of knowing that a man is theirs. <br />
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As for men I think I speak and think like 80% of the species when I say stuff so ladies are you listen I will give you a second to focus...................Ready. MEN ARE AFRAID OF TITLES!!! When a title is placed on a man it's like hearing the slam of a prison door when somebody is locked up. Basically, that is what is happening all the possible women he dreamed of and probably would never get is cut off to us. Halle Berry, Tarji P., and even the cute big booty receptionist at work, all those dreams are crushed. For men that is a scary thing. Men tend to think there is something better out there, we sometimes think ok she is good but if I can get her just think about what else I can get. I really believe that if men our allowed to just date a woman without ever having to commit to a title men would do that forever. <br />
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I know there are going to be some people that don't agree with my view point and I comfortable with that but this is how I feel. I can honestly say that I am afraid of titles and it has nothing to do with finding another woman. I am an attractive man so women are a dime a dozen, my fear comes from not being that security blanket that a woman needs. When things get serious between me and a woman I honestly freeze up because I look at the big picture. I ask myself this question: which is can I be the man this woman needs completely? Most times it's no so I tend to run away, I just don't want to be sub par boyfriend or husband. Men that are half ass in relationship are losers to me. If you can't meet your lady half way in every aspect of a relationship then you need to not be in that relationship. I want to be able to help my woman be the best person she can be, obtaining everything her heart desires and I want her to do the same for me. Ladies I hope I have given you a little bit of understanding when it comes to men on this issue. So when you are thinking to yourself he needs to lock me down just know he is just afraid most times and be gentle with him on this subject. As for me I am beginning to get over my fear and I think by expressing it in this blog it will hopefully make it easier for me to just take that leap into the deep end of the love pool.<br />
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